Making sense of the phrase ‘too risky to share’

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First off, a blessed, solemn Holy Week and if it’s April 5, 2026, happy Easter. I miss how things used to be… It’s too risky to share. It seems like each scroll through social media we read the phrase “too risky to share” but it’s shared anyway. From kidding harmlessly to confessing profoundly, netizens write captions and posts until readers ask themselves what it means by that risk. 

Or if it’s real. 

Parang nakakahiya. Why is it posted in the first place? It may be another step without much depth or it may be the other way. Nagpapakatotoo lang.

“Too risky to share” makes sense (of course, we give the sharer the benefit of a doubt). We’ve not been comfortable volunteering all our information all the time; more so in public. It therefore expresses emotion with some protection. Lusot: “I’ll be honest, though it’s embarrassing.”

Asked why one is doing a penitencia, the usual response is, “Marami akong kasalanan.” Or: “Nagbabawas ng kasalanan.” “Too risky to share” is a declaration that “I’m not alone.” Which also means an invitation: “Join me or bear with me.” Many think that the generation now calls for more resistance and enough resilience (or enough of it). Wala nang hiya-hiya ngayon.

Losing its weight

Since it’s not really a risk, there is nothing insensitive to feel sorry about and no danger to speak of. From the very simple “wala lang” and “may masabi lang” to the most complicated: “I’m OK but no, I’m not… Too risky to share.” 

The phrase in question only means that the sharer tries to accessorize their post with it. Trying to be deep, the sharer’s post instead becomes an empty well.  (Isn’t that the reason the culture of reading can never be revived?) So young people will turn to optics. But the message is the message and it is incumbent upon them to understand its being more prevailing, never mind how good the medium is.

Following the moral direction

May this Holy Week prompt us to ask God to give us space to reflect, to grieve, and to hold on to what is right since we’re weighed down by conflict after conflict, distrust after distrust. We keep on communicating and world leaders conduct meeting after meeting, but this follows with war after war after war.

Maybe it helps if the US Congress is asked first of its approval before Donald Trump wage wars. But it’s too risky to share that he is his constituents’ leader. 

Some say that the US+Israel vs Iran (more popularly called US-Israel vs Iran) is a necessary evil in geopolitics. They say that US+Israel vs Iran (more popularly called US-Israel vs Iran) is a necessary evil in geopolitics.  I beg to differ. For the sake of national interest and security, there is reason to believe that it’s illogical; with the US “helping” Israel wage wars, I hope that peace-loving Americans will come out of their senses and stop their war-freak leaders, especially Trump. His mercurial temperament is the problem. He can’t do it in his own home, but his neighbor, his fellow American citizens, and some of their leaders have allowed and continue to allow it to go international.

That Israel and the US waging wars without rules must end. But it’s hard to start ending it if we’re only the Philippines and Filipinos. We still can help end it with God’s help. We need to communicate with Him. He is the ultimate Ruler, eternal Judge, and sender of the Savior, his Son Jesus Christ, who is the name above Trump, Netanyahu, and all other names.

If “without rules” is not the case for the Prime Minister of Israel, take a close look and read slowly the November 21, 2024 initial order of warrant of arrest issued by the International Criminal Court (ICC): “Charges: Allegedly responsible for the war crimes of starvation as a method of warfare and of intentionally directing an attack against the civilian population, and the crimes against humanity of murder, persecution, and other inhumane acts from at least 8 October 2023 until at least 20 May 2024.” 

He could have and should have done a Private Benjamin: Be sorry. It’ your best move. In initial phases of amity with Americans (or Trump/MAGA supporters), too much disclosure that you’re ready to receive their all-out support for your all-out war can cause discomfort. But going easy on your neighboring countries, which also brave deep, decades-old domestic problems on their own, will win Israel’s truly chosen battle: spreading love.

God who is slow to anger may ask Netanyahu to retract so many words, especially this: “History proves that unfortunately and unhappily, Jesus Christ has no advantage over Genghis Khan.” There’s no good argument overcoming morality (not even in war) with atrocities and so much power. Just be sorry. Recognize your wrongdoing. Vengeance belongs to the God of Israel, and you may accumulate worldwide popularity, rather than notoriety, when you begin to rule with the power of non-retaliation.

Some things are better left unsaid to leaders like Trump and Netanyahu… Too risky to share.


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DC Alviar

Professor DC Alviar is a tenured associate professor at National University (NU) Manila and a steering committee member of the Philippine International Studies Organization (PHISO). He has contributed to NU's community extension initiatives that introduced the five disciplines of a learning organization (Senge, 1990) to communities within a local government unit. He writes and edits local reports for Mega Scene. He graduated with Master of Development Communication (MDC) and Doctor of Communication (DComm) degrees from the University of the Philippines (UP) Open University in Los Baños and was awarded with a Commission on Higher Education (CHED) SIKAP grant. He previously served as editor-in-chief of The Adamson News and his high school publication Ang Ugat.

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